Update
A dating update. The latest girl... let's call her C, is not out of the picture just yet. She called yesterday to see if I wanted to go to the show tonight. I was already going, why not? We had dinner and saw the show, met up with some friends and had a good time.
Here's my new take on the situation. I like being around her, but I'm not all that into it either, and I have too much self respect to be strung along. I'm going to date around, and when I feel like it, I'll see if she wants to hang out. If I never hear from her again, fine.
Most of my friends have long ago adopted this style of dating, usually dating 2 or 3 women at a time. I never really felt comfortable dating more than one woman at a time, but that's because I usually only date someone for more than a week if I could see myself being with them long term. What's the healthier attitude out of the two? I really don't think it's a good idea to date more than one person at a time, even if one is perfectly honest from the start.
However. I am 22 years old. I am moving across the country in 2 months. I currently have options.... Why not? I don't think any of the girls I'm interested in want a serious relationship either. Frankly, I am looking for a serious relationship, but I'm not opposed to having some fun for the next 2 months.
The options, you ask? Well, the ex is still in the picture. We've been good friends since the breakup... and spending a lot of time together. There are some others too, but honestly, I have the most feelings for the ex. We'll see though, I am happy enough being her friend.
Sorry for all the dating stuff. It's nice to get this stuff out there a bit, since I haven't been able to for so long. I'll balance out soon enough I'm sure.
A dating update. The latest girl... let's call her C, is not out of the picture just yet. She called yesterday to see if I wanted to go to the show tonight. I was already going, why not? We had dinner and saw the show, met up with some friends and had a good time.
Here's my new take on the situation. I like being around her, but I'm not all that into it either, and I have too much self respect to be strung along. I'm going to date around, and when I feel like it, I'll see if she wants to hang out. If I never hear from her again, fine.
Most of my friends have long ago adopted this style of dating, usually dating 2 or 3 women at a time. I never really felt comfortable dating more than one woman at a time, but that's because I usually only date someone for more than a week if I could see myself being with them long term. What's the healthier attitude out of the two? I really don't think it's a good idea to date more than one person at a time, even if one is perfectly honest from the start.
However. I am 22 years old. I am moving across the country in 2 months. I currently have options.... Why not? I don't think any of the girls I'm interested in want a serious relationship either. Frankly, I am looking for a serious relationship, but I'm not opposed to having some fun for the next 2 months.
The options, you ask? Well, the ex is still in the picture. We've been good friends since the breakup... and spending a lot of time together. There are some others too, but honestly, I have the most feelings for the ex. We'll see though, I am happy enough being her friend.
Sorry for all the dating stuff. It's nice to get this stuff out there a bit, since I haven't been able to for so long. I'll balance out soon enough I'm sure.
posted by Composer at 11:22 PM
3 Comments:
Who cares if you write about dating stuff? Your blog, write what you damn well please- especially since now you have the freedom to do so. And there is nothing wrong with dating around, as long as you are honest. (And be super careful if dating and fucking are mixed...this is your Public Service Announcement from the Condom QUeen!). The next two months should be awesome! Have a ball with it!
God, I hope fucking is involved.
Thanks, professy!
And if there is fucking, there better be details man! I want details! Experiencing dry spell and need to live vicariously through you!
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