IN THE FACE OF RUDENESS
I feel like I've been dealing with a lot of rude women lately, and I'm not entirely sure that patience and indifference is the best way to deal with them.
1. The night the ex and I broke up, she made an accusation that she thought that every time we hang out, I was only thinking about sex. This was, in fact, the second time she had brought this up. Priding myself on treating women with the utmost respect, this was VERY offensive to me.
2. The ex told me she thought it acceptable to not call someone back, even if they called her, as a means to break up with them.
3. Apparently, C has seconded this opinion, because I haven't heard back from her in a week. Am I upset at loosing her? Not at all, I could hold better conversation with a brick, I'm simply upset at the way she's going about it.
4. I set up plans with a girl at work, K, we'll call her, for Thursday night. She texts me at 6 pm that evening to cancel. Not even a phone call, just a text message.
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How did I deal with these?
1. Held my temper, told her it was offensive to me.
2. Nothing, just listened in disbelief
3. Nothing ...yet
4. She texted me yesterday and apologized, I have not replied
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I don't think myself to be a sucker for punishment, but I have always prided myself on the fact that I don't lose my temper. I have never yelled at anyone in my entire life. I have good communication skills in relationships, and forgive quickly if the harm done was unintentional. HOWEVER. I am just floored at the way these women work. I am trying still to maintain a friendship with the ex, but how can I when she obviously thinks that she can break up with people by not calling them back?
C? What can I do besides send her a strongly worded e-mail? Really, I don't know, help me out here... people have to know that's not OK.
K? Why put up with it? I deserve better than to be blown off. Should I not even respond? I believe that makes me no better than the others, but the difference is that I've been done wrong...
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All this aside. I deserve better. I've been lucky to date one or two mature women who ended things ...maturely. I'm still friends with one, and that would not have been possible if she had randomly stopped returning my calls.
Frankly, it's a slap in the face, and that's what bothers me the most. It's like saying that you're not even worth the 5 minutes it would take to explain my feelings. Sickening.
So, I hear a lot of talk about these East coast girls. I'm really hoping there's something to that.
I feel like I've been dealing with a lot of rude women lately, and I'm not entirely sure that patience and indifference is the best way to deal with them.
1. The night the ex and I broke up, she made an accusation that she thought that every time we hang out, I was only thinking about sex. This was, in fact, the second time she had brought this up. Priding myself on treating women with the utmost respect, this was VERY offensive to me.
2. The ex told me she thought it acceptable to not call someone back, even if they called her, as a means to break up with them.
3. Apparently, C has seconded this opinion, because I haven't heard back from her in a week. Am I upset at loosing her? Not at all, I could hold better conversation with a brick, I'm simply upset at the way she's going about it.
4. I set up plans with a girl at work, K, we'll call her, for Thursday night. She texts me at 6 pm that evening to cancel. Not even a phone call, just a text message.
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How did I deal with these?
1. Held my temper, told her it was offensive to me.
2. Nothing, just listened in disbelief
3. Nothing ...yet
4. She texted me yesterday and apologized, I have not replied
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I don't think myself to be a sucker for punishment, but I have always prided myself on the fact that I don't lose my temper. I have never yelled at anyone in my entire life. I have good communication skills in relationships, and forgive quickly if the harm done was unintentional. HOWEVER. I am just floored at the way these women work. I am trying still to maintain a friendship with the ex, but how can I when she obviously thinks that she can break up with people by not calling them back?
C? What can I do besides send her a strongly worded e-mail? Really, I don't know, help me out here... people have to know that's not OK.
K? Why put up with it? I deserve better than to be blown off. Should I not even respond? I believe that makes me no better than the others, but the difference is that I've been done wrong...
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All this aside. I deserve better. I've been lucky to date one or two mature women who ended things ...maturely. I'm still friends with one, and that would not have been possible if she had randomly stopped returning my calls.
Frankly, it's a slap in the face, and that's what bothers me the most. It's like saying that you're not even worth the 5 minutes it would take to explain my feelings. Sickening.
So, I hear a lot of talk about these East coast girls. I'm really hoping there's something to that.
posted by Composer at 10:36 PM
2 Comments:
I'm sure there are women like that here too honey!!! But generally, it's a different atmosphere. Besides, you're so freaking hot, it will not be a problem!!!
There's ALOT of cool places, especially in Baltimore. Outdoor bar complexes, it's a blast!!! Lots of hotties, too!!!
I think I'll let you interview me... be gentle!!!
Hey man, woman can be thoughtless no matter where you live. As for the situations you have encountered- ignore them all and move on...
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