PART 2
I swear on everything good, if all women were like KC, I would throw myself off the tallest building and be done with it.
So she decides to come over last night and talk. In the course of the conversation, she accuses me of only wanting to be friends with people when they don't need my help, of being selfish, of leading her on. She tells me she never asked me to look out for her, and that I acted like it was a burden when I did. She accused me of flirting with girls in front of her, and of not appreciating it when she took care of me when I was drunk.
Where to start? Where to start...
Let's see, she doesn't know me well enough to make any sweeping generalizations about my character, especially of being selfish. I never led her on, I just didn't want to pull my arm away every time she grabbed it, because it makes me feel like an asshole. True, she never asked me to look out for her, unfortunately, no one else was, and I didn't want her getting stupid drunk again. I wasn't acting like it was a burden, I was joking with her and others about the last time she drank. I wasn't flirting with other girls that night, but if I wanted to, I damn well could, because that's my fucking business. And last but not least, I never got drunk enough to need taking care of.
And breathe.
I got all that out and she didn't have much to come back with. Considering how offended I was, I still got it out quite calmly.. but without any sugar coating this time.
Wowie, believe it or not, I don't think she's crazy.... just really immature. The girl's had one boyfriend of about 2 weeks, and that's it. She overthinks everything... and she can't take a joke.
Twenty-two years old folks, Twenty-two.
I swear on everything good, if all women were like KC, I would throw myself off the tallest building and be done with it.
So she decides to come over last night and talk. In the course of the conversation, she accuses me of only wanting to be friends with people when they don't need my help, of being selfish, of leading her on. She tells me she never asked me to look out for her, and that I acted like it was a burden when I did. She accused me of flirting with girls in front of her, and of not appreciating it when she took care of me when I was drunk.
Where to start? Where to start...
Let's see, she doesn't know me well enough to make any sweeping generalizations about my character, especially of being selfish. I never led her on, I just didn't want to pull my arm away every time she grabbed it, because it makes me feel like an asshole. True, she never asked me to look out for her, unfortunately, no one else was, and I didn't want her getting stupid drunk again. I wasn't acting like it was a burden, I was joking with her and others about the last time she drank. I wasn't flirting with other girls that night, but if I wanted to, I damn well could, because that's my fucking business. And last but not least, I never got drunk enough to need taking care of.
And breathe.
I got all that out and she didn't have much to come back with. Considering how offended I was, I still got it out quite calmly.. but without any sugar coating this time.
Wowie, believe it or not, I don't think she's crazy.... just really immature. The girl's had one boyfriend of about 2 weeks, and that's it. She overthinks everything... and she can't take a joke.
Twenty-two years old folks, Twenty-two.
posted by Composer at 10:16 AM
4 Comments:
Umm........[shaking head]
I've said it before and I'll say it again....YOU are very mature for your age. You have your head on straight, know where you want to be and where you are going, as well as handle yourself much more maturely than most boys your age (IMHO)....
KC has shown that she is very immature. I do think the fact that she has so little relationship experience is a key factor in this all. And I actually almost feel badly for her that she continues to handle herself so poorly. She's very lucky that you are the way you are and handling yourself as well as you have in regards to her. I think most boys you guys age would not put up w/ her BS as well as you have.
So kuddos to you babe.
Oh....and I suppose I would try to go out NOT where and when she does... ;) IYKWIM
Uh, well 1 boyfriend of 2 weeks huh? I think her by her actions w/ you we're not all wondering WHY that would be!? Ah to be 22 again and think we know it all and have the world by the balls!!!!! If I only knew then what I know now!!!
I agree whole-heartedly with EE on this one.
I doubt the next man that lands on her will be as "gentle" as you came across. You weren't an AH (sorry EE ;-), you laid it on the lie, set it straight and she had nothing to say because she was right.
Run...dear boy... run... far away from women like this. She will find someone eventually who will tolerate the non-sense.
You, on the other hand, deserve much better. Not many men are considerate as you are, especially at your age.
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